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and even Nollywood had a spin on the    Like Chioma, a lot of prostitutes see the
                                trade. Perhaps my fondest memories of  job as a means to an end. Everyone who
                                Ann Njemanze and Gloria Young were      dabbles into a trade, or hobby usually
                                in the infamous, Domittila, and Glamour   has some driving purpose. A lot of
                                Girls - a must watch, if nostalgia about   women are not as fortunate as Chioma,
                                VHS tapes, early day feminism and old   and some never leave the scene
                                Nollywood cinema are your thing.        but if these women were so morally
                                                                        degenerate, how and why was it such
                                A lot of morally reprehensible          big business?
                                conversations were always around
                                prostitutes. Film and culture depicted   Research has shown that African
                                the women who chose this life as I had   societies generally prohibit sexual work
                                remembered them - loud and obvious      or all sex associated work including
                                and mostly working at night. As I       soliciting, pimping and even brothels.
                                grew older, I heard other derivations –   On the other side of the world though,
                                ‘Night workers’, ‘Girls of the backdoor’,   associations and groups that have
                                ‘Ogboloba’, ‘Hookers’ and even the      risen from Human rights movements
                                slur that has found its way into modern   and concerned parties, have found an
                                urban culture- ‘Slut’. One thing was    increase in the trade. Some countries
                                profound; the way prostitutes were      control the scene by ensuring sex
                                addressed always seemed to be           workers take regular health checks,
                                derogatory. Nobody wanted to be         pay taxes and only operate within
                                a prostitute, it was anything but an    designated areas.
                                honourable profession. It meant you
                                were loose, and unashamedly ready to    A lot of feminists who have spoken
                                do the down and dirty.                  to the breakdown of the patriarchy,
                                                                        have expressly raised concerns
                                Could one choose this life? Was it      for commercial sex workers. Often
                                an effect of an unmet want? Were        described as abolitionists, they
                                prostitutes really bad? Weren’t they    speak to the fact that prostitution is a
                                people working too?                     violence against women. Nothing in the
                                                                        dealings, supports the strengthening or
                                “…Many times, my landlord was my        empowerment of the woman. A good
                                saving Grace, he opened his home to     number of sex workers have been
                                us because there were days when we      led to it, as a reaction to a suppressed
                                couldn’t get clients. A good number of   economic situation. This group believes
                                us were doing this work for our families   that voluntary prostitution can very
                                back at home. When I met Ray*, it was   much be likened to sexual exploitation.
                                a turning point, we are now married with
                                3 beautiful children and live in Ireland.   “A sex worker’s choice is to sell her
                                Even though I am not doing the work     sex labour or starve it; it amounts
                                any longer, it was a window to many     to compulsion and really amounts
                                other opportunities,” says an ex-sex    to no choice at all.” Simply put the
                                worker, Chioma.                         abolitionists’ side of the feminists
                                                                        argument believes ridding women from




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