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Yes, women want

                                                                    empowerment and
                                                                    upliftment, but the

                                                                    question begs, is this sort
                                                                    of challenge uplifting or

                                                                    degrading women? Like

                                                                    everything in life, right
                                                                    or wrong, good or bad

                                                                    are relative and context-
                                                                    driven concepts.



                                                                    may also have crossed a few lines with
                                                                    quite a number of women voicing their
                                                                    dissatisfaction with the way the challenge
                                                                    encouraged the self-objectification of
                                                                    women. “Why do I need your approval to
                                                                    acknowledge that I have a perfect body” or
                                                                    “Why should I share my nudeness with the
                                                                    world just to prove that I am proud of my
                                                                    body!” “I am not that insecure,” a couple of
                                                                    women opined.


                                                                    Some women feel the challenge strips
                                                                    women of their dignity “Imagine coming to
                                                                    work tomorrow knowing all your colleagues
                                                                    have seen you naked” one woman said.
                                                                    “How does that empower you or make you
                                                                    feel proud as a woman?” “It won’t make
                                                                    me a proud mom, if my children saw such
                                                                    videos of me,” said another lady. “Imagine
                                                                    all the communities you are active in, your
                                                                    schoolmates, your church members seeing
                                                                    your nudes? That would be very shameful,”
                                                                    another woman reflected.

                                                                    For others, participating in the challenge
                                                                    may be taking things too far and not
                                                                    worth the consequences. “You wan
                                                                    make my Papa kill me?” (do you want my
                                                                    dad to kill me?), “Make dem pursue me
                                                                    commot from house...” (cast me away
                                                                    from my community) another woman



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