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         whatever it is, time for the kids is   It’s seeing my almost 4-year-old   Can women have it all or must
         not compromised or impacted        twins making me proud. They        one thing give way to the
         negatively. With the recent trend   articulate their thoughts so well,   other?
         of working from home / virtually, I   the level of confidence they
         would be inclined to explore how I  exude in their interaction with   Absolutely, women can have it
         can fit that into my work pattern.  adults, and the eloquence of their  all. There is no one size fits all,
                                            speech is impressive even to me    no-one should judge the choices
         With 15 years of past work         as their mum.                      of women, it’s a personal thing
         experience and all that was                                           as every person’s situation
         invested in me and the trainings   They are such super-intelligent    is different. Different women
         I went through, I know with        kids, especially, my daughter who  find themselves in different
         certainty I still have quite a bit I   is very assertive for her age. It   circumstances and have to make
         can contribute to an organisation  reassures me that the investment  tough decisions, and with those
         intellectually. I was blessed to   of my time with them and all the   decisions come sacrifices.
         have worked in cross-functional    sacrifice is worth it. I’m so grateful
         roles during my time at STB and    that I can be there for them at    Some women can mix career
         UBA, so I see myself as being      every turn especially in these     and family well and can manage
         very versatile.                    formative years, to guide, correct,  both simultaneously. For others,
                                            and encourage them as needed       especially those who started a
         And at this point in my life, it’s   while enabling them to develop   family very early, it’s kids first,
         not just about the pay check, it’s   into their unique individuals.   then career later. And for some
         about adding value, making a                                          like me who are living their life
         tangible impact, and contributing  My kids being intellectually       in reverse, it’s a career first, the
         to the success of whichever        and socially sound at such a       family later, and the possibility
         organisation I find myself working  young age and above-average       of another career stint later in
         with.                              intelligence and level of logical   life. I am fortunate to have been
                                            reasoning, engagement and          able to make the decision I did to
         What does success look like in  confidence. That to me is             temporarily give up my career for
         this new role?                     success.                           family life and it’s worked perfectly
                                                                               for me, more so because I have




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