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always observed his interactions with staff; from
         the security man to the office assistants to the front
         desk officers and above; he never forgot a name
         or a face. Whenever our paths crossed and he got
         to talk to me, he would ask about my mum! … and
         you know what that does? It makes you want to
         give your best at everything. So I picked this up
         early from him and improved on my social skills.
         This helped me with building good interpersonal
         relationships with all cadre of staff, and so far, it has
         proved key to my success all through my stay at the
         bank and beyond.


         How tough was the decision to resign from
         a career that was going so well, to become a
         full-time mum?


         I’ll answer that paradoxically by saying it was
         a tough one. At the same time, it was an easy
         decision. I struggled with the decision for weeks.
         This was where I had spent practically all my
         working life. I didn’t know any other life as the case
         was. I was, also, doing pretty well in my role at the
         time, it was not easy for me to take that step to leave
         the bank and the corporate world.                   departments. I still keep in touch with quite a
                                                             number of my previous colleagues and some have
         At the same time, I was growing into my mid-40s.    become like family.
         My husband had been supportive in the almost
         7 years that we had been married but I knew he      I look back at my time at UBA with nostalgia and
         wanted us to grow our family and based on medical  the various projects I championed like Project UBA
         advice, I needed to take that time out. After careful   DNA, the Knowledge Enhancement Training (KET)
         consideration I put out my resignation on the       Program which used to be my ‘baby’. My last job
         premise that I had built a career… it was now time to  function before I left the bank was as a Branch
         build a family.                                     Manager in a loss-making Business Office, we
                                                             made profit in my first month there and all through
         Impressive! What do you miss most about the  my 6 months there. This had never happened in the
         corporate world and most especially UBA?            history of that Business Office, and it felt so fulfilling
                                                             to be breaking boundaries.
         Honestly, I miss the experience. I miss that
         adrenaline rush and sense of fulfilment that came   ‘Full-time mum’ is such an interesting job title.
         with taking on a task, working it out, and seeing   What’s the experience like?
         the results come to life. I miss challenging myself
         to always think outside the box to get things done.   I know right (lol), and it’s a job title I wear with pride.
         I also miss the relationships and friendships I     Fulfilling is how I would describe it. I approach my
         built as I worked with other colleagues in various   newly acquired role as I would a job at the office. My




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